If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all
(Rom 12:18).
On the surface this sounds like an easy command to obey. Yet it takes everything we learn about Christ and to emulate him to be able to do it. The reason it is difficult is that no matter how much we put others before ourselves, how much we strive to be kind to others, there will always be someone who is going to have consternation with you.
Maybe not all the time, but because people are sinful, even other believers may become abusive against you. Even members of your own household.
The key to remember and not become despondent or devastated about it is the small phrase, “so far as it depends on you.” How do you do that? Don't give others reasons for offense. But know that even then some will find your behavior offensive. Just don't do it on purpose or go out of your way to make it happen.
When it happens, don't look for vengeance (Rom 12:19) but still treat them lovingly as much as possible (Rom 12:20). Wait for the Lord to take care of it. Of course if I'm at fault I must confess and ask for forgiveness. But even then, some may not forgive but I've done what I could do to be at peace.
Help me Lord, not to be overcome by evil but overcome evil with good (Rom 12: 21).